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APA BEZANYA SAYANG DENGAN SUKA?

so, kalau tengok tajuk pun memang tahu sudah juga kan, apa sebenarnya perbezaan sayang dengan suka? adakah kedua-dua elemen ni duduk dalam satu makna? memang kadang-kadang ada jak ni orang confuse, well human make mistake. nobody perfect kan :)  let me give a simple example yang semua orang boleh connect insyaAllah. say that there is a couple here. this couple have been together 8 years, bukan kejap tu, lama juga lah. anyway, we go deep inside both lovers. bila kau sudah kenal orang ni, kau jatuh cinta dengan keunikan, kecantikan or maybe kau tertarik dengan perangai pelik dia, apa-apa jak lah kan, and then kau tertarik mahu kenal dia lebih dalam, macam kau mahu terokai kehidupan dia macam mana, kau terima kekurangan dia dan kau yakin dia yang terbaik, begitu lama kau kenal dia and kau decide to get married with her. that is love, sebab sayang terbina di sana. wow. memang sayang tu susah tapi tetap timbul walaupun dengan orang salah. but i'm telling you, bukan semua sayang tu kek...

HATI MOHON BERTABAH

dalam dunia ni bukan semua benda baik boleh jadi dengan kita. kita manusia ni bukan nya boleh berharap semua benda baik mahu jadi atas permintaan kita, ikut kepala kita saja. omg, kalau semua manusia macam tu maybe everyone will be happy no stress at all. back to my topic, memang lah kesabaran manusia tu ada, memang lah manusia ini penuh dengan kehidupan suka duka dengan masa silam yang buruk pun ada. jangan cakap lah kan. my point is, semua benda kau kena tabah. semua benda kau kena kawal dan simpan dalam hati untuk mengelakkan rasa menyesal di hati,  apalah guna kalau menyesal kemudian? ego menebal di dalam hati dan aku kena tahu aku kena tabah dalam  hati aku. yakin lah setiap kejadian ada hikmahnya. so bersabarlah hati. jangan mudah putus asa. 

ACCEPT THEM LIKE THEY ACCEPT YOU

certain people had their own experience in having a protective family in their life, we cant blame the parents for being such a protective and sometimes overacting. like when the children has a program at school, some parents especially the one called 'mom' usually will ask some kind of weird things and never care the surrounding. maybe you friend giggling looking at you reation with how you mom treat you. but not to worry about that. accept you mom as who she is. she just caring plus worried about you, that all. they just want the best for their children. remember that.  some part there is where the situation here was becoming tough. things could happen when you parents wont let you go anywhere and even worst wont allow you to have what you want. frustatting? cant deny how hurt it would be. but before you can say a words to them, why cant you just accept their reason for not giving you what you desperately wanted. see, parents have been through the teenager phase so they ha...